Marriage is good for many reasons! One of them is that when one is having a good day, they can be there and talk to the other if they are not so having a bad day. That is why it is good to work on a team with others and not work alone. It is that way for marriage in which your spouse and you work together for life, whereas co-workers work with you temporarily. Some do not get to work with others at an employment position. And there are some who do not have a spouse (not getting to work together in life). A new perspective for you is that if you are struggling with seeing a helpful side to your marriage and marriage position/relationship, see it with gratefulness that you are not working alone. Take up the opportunity for diffusing of "bad days." If it's your husband with the bad day and you are having a good day, talk to him and make him smile or laugh. It it's you with the bad day, still see this perspective and talk to your husband to receive encouragement. A suggestion to get encouragement from him during your bad day is to ask his counsel or advice about something... and call it that to his face... "Can I have your counsel/advice on _______?" I used to feel good and bad days weren't acceptable, that all days had to be good... but realistically and logically, that is not how life is. God continue to bless you all, dear wives, on this journey you have with your husband.
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